A sister forward the following message, found it interesting, read on:
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...
Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
Remember, to say, "I love you" to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.
Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Wednesday 14 November 2007
Tuesday 13 November 2007
没音乐的世界
今天回家時, 突然幻想一下没音乐的世界, 心中不禁涌出一股恐懼的感觉. 原来没音乐, 生命是多么的无趣. 坦若我的生命能制造音乐, 那会有多好. 小提琴, 等着瞧, 我会政服你的! ;")
Thursday 1 November 2007
Small change is important for autopay carparks!
Today I went to attend a celebration of a successful product release at KLCC, stayed until quite late. When it's time to head home and I am paying the carpark fee in front of the autopay machine, I notice I do not have small change but only 50 ringgit notes. At first I thought the autopay machine will accept 50 ringgit note, but it doesn't! So, I started to ask around whether anyone got RM50 small change. To my disappointment, most of them just shake their head and walked off. When I'm about to get panic, someone came back with 5 ten ringgits to exchange with my 50 ringgit note. I'm so grateful to the person! At last I'm able to leave the carpark!
I myself never aware how important it is to have small change when park in autopay carpark. I now learned the lesson but most of all, I'm ready to help those who stuck in the carpark like me in the future :)
I myself never aware how important it is to have small change when park in autopay carpark. I now learned the lesson but most of all, I'm ready to help those who stuck in the carpark like me in the future :)
Monday 22 October 2007
I'm a sponge?
Today my colleague said that I'm a sponge, always inviting works until I overload myself. "It's a character problem", she said. "Is it?", I asked myself.
Looking at my working history, she's probably right. But somehow I believe it's not due to I'm inviting too many works, instead, is inability to better self-organize among various tasks, and get carried away quite easily.
I do appreciate that she share her thought with me. Soon I'm starting another chapter of life, looking forward to paint many pictures with a lot of colorful colors in the coming phase of life.
Looking at my working history, she's probably right. But somehow I believe it's not due to I'm inviting too many works, instead, is inability to better self-organize among various tasks, and get carried away quite easily.
I do appreciate that she share her thought with me. Soon I'm starting another chapter of life, looking forward to paint many pictures with a lot of colorful colors in the coming phase of life.
Saturday 21 July 2007
Did I Marry The Right Person?
I found this article from an email, it's interesting but it doesn't tell what are the laws for relationships. Do you know?
Read on ...
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question.
She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said,
"It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because the chances are
good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love...
Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and /or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious.
But sometimes people turn to work,a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage.
It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON;
IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you.
You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out.
That's why we have the expression "the labor of love."
Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM .
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do
(with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect.
If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable...you can "make" love.
Read on ...
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question.
She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said,
"It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because the chances are
good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love...
Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and /or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious.
But sometimes people turn to work,a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage.
It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON;
IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you.
You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out.
That's why we have the expression "the labor of love."
Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM .
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do
(with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect.
If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable...you can "make" love.
Saturday 3 March 2007
Words of Wisdom
You must stand in other person's shoe and look at the situation through their eyes in order to truly understand their perspective.
Faith determine who comes into your life.
The Heard detemine who stays.
What you do today is getting you closer to where you want to be tomorrow.
Don't let the odds keep you from pursuing what you know you were meant to be.
Seek respect rather than popularity.
Be willing to accept a temporary inconvenience for a permanent improvement.
Happiness doesn't depend on how much you have to enjoy, but how much you enjoy what you have.
A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances but rather a person with certain set of attitudes.
You live longer once you realize that anytime spent being unhappy is wasted.
You can't experience being alive without realizing that you have to die.
It is just as impossible to realize you have to die without thinking how incredibly amazing it is to be alive.
Faith determine who comes into your life.
The Heard detemine who stays.
What you do today is getting you closer to where you want to be tomorrow.
Don't let the odds keep you from pursuing what you know you were meant to be.
Seek respect rather than popularity.
Be willing to accept a temporary inconvenience for a permanent improvement.
Happiness doesn't depend on how much you have to enjoy, but how much you enjoy what you have.
A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances but rather a person with certain set of attitudes.
You live longer once you realize that anytime spent being unhappy is wasted.
You can't experience being alive without realizing that you have to die.
It is just as impossible to realize you have to die without thinking how incredibly amazing it is to be alive.
Tuesday 16 January 2007
Whaaaaaat ??!!
I couldn't believe what I have read from an email! Yin Qi is recruiting for orchestra members!
Wow, for all my life I thought I can only dream to play in a Christian ministry orchestra but now, my dream may come true. Why may? Cause I have not reach their minimum requirement yet, which is grade 6.
When I'm still wondering whether it is possible to join the orchestra one day, a friend said the only way that a dream cannot be met is when I give up working towards it. Thank you! (you know who you are ^_^)
I shall start working towards it! Any good violin teacher to introduce?
For those who's interested:
Wow, for all my life I thought I can only dream to play in a Christian ministry orchestra but now, my dream may come true. Why may? Cause I have not reach their minimum requirement yet, which is grade 6.
When I'm still wondering whether it is possible to join the orchestra one day, a friend said the only way that a dream cannot be met is when I give up working towards it. Thank you! (you know who you are ^_^)
I shall start working towards it! Any good violin teacher to introduce?
For those who's interested:
Friday 12 January 2007
Someone who teaches me to share
It's strange, that day I saw the old man who sleeps beside an escalator, I have a special concern for him. I don't know where that comes from and why not to the others who share the other corner of the escalator. Maybe is his face expression that attracts me.
I looked at my hand, just received a water bottle from the bus conductor. I was on my way to Singapore that night. Suddenly an urge surge through my heart, just before the bus pull away, I ran down and quickly charged towards the man and just before I reached his place, I slowed down and quietly walk near him and put down the water bottle beside him. I then quickly turned and ran back to the bus like I have someone chasing after me from behind! The conductor was kind enough to wait for me. He smiled at me and I returned the smile.
I return to my seat and sat down quietly. Some passenger from the bus greets me with weird look but I just concentrate on the old man. Not long after I embarked the bus, the old man turned his back and found the water bottle beside him. He took the bottle and go back to sleep. What's difference now is he hugged the bottle to sleep with a little smile on his face.
Seeing him smile, I have greater happiness in heart. Though I can't help much for his situation, I've learned to be able to make a difference just at that moment make life wonderful. From then on, I have decided that life is to share and forever, I will share mine.
Thank you, the One who teaches me the happiness of sharing.
I looked at my hand, just received a water bottle from the bus conductor. I was on my way to Singapore that night. Suddenly an urge surge through my heart, just before the bus pull away, I ran down and quickly charged towards the man and just before I reached his place, I slowed down and quietly walk near him and put down the water bottle beside him. I then quickly turned and ran back to the bus like I have someone chasing after me from behind! The conductor was kind enough to wait for me. He smiled at me and I returned the smile.
I return to my seat and sat down quietly. Some passenger from the bus greets me with weird look but I just concentrate on the old man. Not long after I embarked the bus, the old man turned his back and found the water bottle beside him. He took the bottle and go back to sleep. What's difference now is he hugged the bottle to sleep with a little smile on his face.
Seeing him smile, I have greater happiness in heart. Though I can't help much for his situation, I've learned to be able to make a difference just at that moment make life wonderful. From then on, I have decided that life is to share and forever, I will share mine.
Thank you, the One who teaches me the happiness of sharing.
Thursday 11 January 2007
one day...
Everything started with one day..
one day, I do not realized I need baby suckie to sleep
one day, I found myself graduated from kindergarden
one day, I found myself graduated from primary school
one day, I found myself graduated from secondary school
one day, I found myself at an graduation ceremony for my bachelor degree
one day, I found myself getting the first pay check in life!
one day, I realized my surrounding things can be interesting
one day, I found myself enjoy watching frog crossing the road
one day, I found myself enjoy eating ice-cream during raining days
one day, I found myself enjoy dancing in the rain
one day, I found myself enjoy looking at people's face expression
one day, I felt grown up when I received my house keys
one day, I felt like living in my own wonderland
one day, I realized people come and go in my life
one day, I realized I do hurt people that's close to me
one day, I realized they still loves me no matter what
one day, I found I was blessed everyday
every day, I thank you for being part of my life
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